A little divine inspiration for you all this morning ...
Control is an illusion. We don't have control over anyone or anything except our thoughts and actions. We can't control other people. We can't control outcomes. We can't control love. And we can't control situations.
What we can do is have a positive attitude. A positive attitude is more likely to help your achieve the things you want in life. If you think positive and act positive you will attract what you want ... Law of Attraction. I like to say to others, do you think an Olympic athlete looks himself or herself in the mirror and says, "I'm going to lose today?" No, successful people think and act positive.
Actions speak louder than words. A person's action tell you much more than their words. People can tell you one thing and quiet literally do another. So watch what the person does and not what he or she says -- that is his/her truth.
What does it matter when it's over. I had this conversation the other day. At some point you hit a crossroads and leave things behind. Unless you're going forward with another person, what he or she did in the past really doesn't matter. It's not longer germane to the situation at hand. Asking why or why not or did you or didn't you ... if the relationship is over, it doesn't matter. You go forward and attack your life with gusto and just don't make the same mistake.
Breathe in and breathe out. This really means one day at a time; one breath at a time; one moment at a time. It's the here and now that counts or simply put The Power of Now. Enjoy the moment!