HBO Original Series: My Brilliant Friend - Review

Rating: ****

The only reason I removed a star from my rating is because the third episode wasn't that exciting. Otherwise, this show continues to hit a home run. What stands out is author and screenwriter Elena Ferrante's alter ego (sometimes referred to in the show as Elena and Lenú) is like this intense, intelligent observer of life around her in the neighborhood in which she grew up and of the people and relationships. The silent way in which Elena watches everyone almost expressionless at times is intriguing. Her adoration and love of her best friend Lila reflects her deep intelligence and understanding of others. At one point when Lila is sick, Elena reflects that she feels a part of her is missing. I was deeply moved by that admission.

The show (so far) breaks down the girl's friendship and how each inspires a competitive desire to be better than the other; but this competition brings out the best in them. They aren't competing for men, but for educational excellence. Elena respects Lila's writing skills and amazing talents. Yet she comes across as feeling inferior somehow. The irony is that Elena is the smarter of the two girls, and because her father supports her education (her mother doesn't) and feels pride in his daughter going off to middle school and then high school, Elena's education progresses. On the other hand, Lila is not as fortunate to have family support so she must educate herself through the library and books.

The show breaks down culture, family rivalries, caste systems, and jealousies. It delves into the neighborhood and love and family. The show is on episode 5 and not finished, so I can't make an overall comment on it yet, but so far I love it. It has made me consider my own memoir.